When great suffering arrives at our doorstep, it has been given to us as an offering by our soul. To heal itself deeper. When we heal, we transform and become a gift to those we meet in the light of the wisdom which has risen within. From a soul deepened through the experience.
If we remain bitter or angry we have missed the opportunity, might need to start over. As what we do not heal or transform into wisdom with us, we pass it on to future generations and to those around us, unconsciously, often as a plea to help us heal. Heal thy Self.
At some point we realise without accessing our soul or God, we cannot see our suffering as our soul does or the wisdom waiting for us to claim. Thus we cannot get out of our anguish, anger or sense of injustice. As it were either we heal or perish.
However, once our suffering has delivered us to the doorstep of God, it has done its job, and then it would leave us. Though physical suffering might continue, we’d definitely be free of the psychological suffering that comes from non acceptance of what is.
Life is impersonal. It wishes us well, but knows we are here to grow. As souls we choose different souls, to teach valuable lessons. If we make it about them, get trapped in the story line we miss the lesson, stay a victim, and thus repeat the class. The cycle.
Sometimes things don’t heal our suffering till we are ready to let go, and learn what it arrived bearing - life lessons.